You look up wedding dates for next season on three websites, ask the family pandit, and get four lists that agree on some days and not on others. It is natural to wonder who is wrong. Usually no one is — the lists were made with different rules, with a different calendar or for a different city. Sometimes, of course, a list simply has a mistake.
These are the nine reasons we see most often, roughly in order of how many days they move.
1. Simhastha Guru: the Strict Books or the Printed Calendar
When Jupiter is in Leo, Muhurta Chintamani and Dharma Sindhu close weddings and other major rites — in every region while Jupiter is in the first 16°40′ of Leo, and in some regions for the whole sign. Many popular printed calendars do not apply this rule. Jupiter enters Leo on 31 October 2026, so for November 2026 to January 2027 a strict pandit's list is empty while a printed calendar shows dates from 21 November. Simhastha Guru 2026–27 has the dates and the regional readings.
2. Combustion: by Degrees or by Sight
Weddings are not held while Venus or Jupiter is combust (asta) — too close to the Sun to be seen. Calendars decide "too close" in two ways. Some use the classical distance in degrees from the Surya Siddhanta tradition: for Venus 10°, or 8° when it is retrograde; for Jupiter 11°. Others use the days when the planet actually cannot be seen at dawn or dusk. The two usually differ by a few days at each end, and sometimes by two weeks or more.
On top of that, the books add "child" and "old" days around combustion — the days just after a planet reappears and just before it sets. How many depends on the region and the authority, usually from three days to ten. So one list can reopen a week earlier than another.
Some lists for January 2026 showed wedding dates while Venus was combust by the classical distance: it was within 10° of the Sun from late November 2025 to mid-February 2026. The next combustions are Venus from 19 to 29 October 2026 and from 6 July to 17 September 2027, and Jupiter from 16 August to 15 September 2027.
3. Months by the Sun or by the Moon
Muhurta Chintamani names the wedding months by the Sun's sign: weddings with the Sun in Mesha, Vrisha, Mithuna, Vrischika, Makara or Kumbha. Narada names lunar months instead — Magha, Phalguna, Vaishakha and Jyeshtha as good, Kartika and Margashirsha as middling. Some authorities prefer a day on which both agree. A calendar that follows one rule will open and close the season on different days from one that follows the other. Kharmas is the solar rule in its popular form; Kharmas 2026–27 gives its dates.
4. Amanta or Purnimanta
North India ends each lunar month at the full moon (purnimanta); Gujarat, Maharashtra, Karnataka, Andhra Pradesh and Telangana end it at the new moon (amanta). The bright half carries the same month name in both systems, but the dark half is named after different months — Diwali's new moon is Kartika Amavasya in one and Ashwin Amavasya in the other. Rules written by lunar month, such as the months for entering a new house, can therefore land on different days.
5. Regional Customs
Many regions add months of their own. In Andhra Pradesh, Telangana and Karnataka the lunar month of Ashadha is widely avoided for weddings. Many Tamil families avoid Aadi and Margazhi, and in Kerala Karkidakam is avoided. Gujarat calls Kharmas Kamurta. Holashtak — the eight days before Holika — is limited by Muhurta Chintamani to the region of the Beas, Ravi and Sutlej and to Pushkar, but is observed more widely in North India today. A list made for one region will simply not fit another.
6. Which Almanac Arithmetic
Not every panchang is calculated the same way. In Tamil Nadu, Vakyam panchangams use traditional tables while Thirukkanitha panchangams use modern astronomy, and their nakshatra and tithi times can differ by hours. In Bengal the traditional Gupta Press panjika and the Bishuddha Siddhanta panjika differ in the same way. When a nakshatra ends a few hours earlier or later, a day can gain or lose its wedding window.
ProxaAI computes with modern astronomy (the Swiss Ephemeris) — the same approach as the Thirukkanitha and Bishuddha almanacs and the Government of India's Rashtriya Panchang. A family that follows a Vakyam panchangam or the Gupta Press panjika should expect some times to differ.